"'Oh, you look so good! You must be feeling a lot better.' It's a kind word of encouragement and yet we've all felt the twinge of "if you only knew" that sparks possible heartache or resentment. They don't have a clue how poorly I feel. It took everything to get up today and brush my hair. Little do they know! Emotions well up within our heart as we contemplate to smile and say, 'Thank you' or jump into our lament of 'Well, I feel a lot worse than I look...'"